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This is another One Million Question you can ask someone whom you’ve met in a party. This question will not be too direct and “obvious” to find out if shes attached.
 
 

The question is… “How do you travel home from work / workplace?”

or

“Where do you go after work, home?”

 
 
Surprisingly, it may sound of a care and concern type of question, or like as though you are asking her a date after work. But curiously, show that you’ve never been to that area at her workplace, “I am not familiar with your office, wheres that exactly?”, follow by asking the question, “How do you go home from there?”

I was at a social gathering when someone actually asked me this question, but I could tell she wasn’t interested in me anyway, just curious to know more about where I work. But I think its quite useful, because with this question, it leads to her answer such as:

“I will travel to A by bus, then to B by MRT, and then walk home”

or

“I will go to this place where I have my xx activity, then I will accompany YY person for dinner.”

Ahh! There you have it, here is how you got your answers to whatever you intention (if it’s to find our if shes’s attached!” Even if she is, a conversation is still opened up, and you could really out more (about the workplace) or some other stuff.

It really depends on how you ask, because if her reply was “I would be usually free after work and then I…” This is what to your imagination and your on-the-spot decision!

I’ve gotten this tip after meeting a few new friends, so I was it was a coincidence as I really wanted to know something else, but thought that this was helpful.

Maybe you’ve ask yourself what’s that “easy-to-find-out” question to ask if someone is attached, or the first words to ask when you meet a girl you like, or interested in. Why not put it this way, ask another question which may lead you to an answer.
 
 

Ask her this One Million Question. “Who do you live with?”

 
 
A standard reply will tell you she’s living with her parents, or her husband, or if she’s staying at her boyfriend’s place.

If she lives with her parents, chances are, you have to probe further. Here you can ask her if she intending to move out? When is she moving out? Plans to buy her home (with someone else)

There’s nothing more you could do if she says living with her husband, but you may just continue your conversation asking her how long she’s been married, where she live, how’s the place and environment etc.

If she’s staying at boyfriend place… that’s one of the turn-off answers to receive.

Hope you have your success into getting the answer you wanted, without getting to direct!

Asking a date from a girl is a difficult task for me. Since I am usually busy with work and stuff, I don’t have much time for myself either. Just to share a few tips I have on my own on dating the perfect person.

#1 - Know the person well.

It is quite wierd or silly, to ask someone you don’t know her well enough. It means the “relationship level” isn’t at the point where you and her can get out and meet up.
 

#2 - Know where she likes to go or what she loves to do.

Does she go for some classes, or where does she work ? Does she have dinner at home or is she able to give you some time for a dinner outside ?

Ladies loves shopping. And you could probably tag along if “you have something to buy.” (just make it up and buy something!)
 

#3 Have a plan before asking.

So you expect someone to tell you what to do ? Or ask her where she want to go instead? Make your choice instead. Ladies prefer YOU to decide. (But if you are treating her to a meal you might want to go for a cheaper alternative first*).

If you were out there to accompany her, finish her task first. Then ask her if she is free to walk around or if she needs to rush home. This is where your time-planning come into play. You need to think on your feet! Have in mind what to do first before planning for your her day.
 

#4 Use your past experiences

Based on your past experiences, are you able to somehow use that onto something new ? Lets not say a date with a female, what about asking your male guys out ? I am sure you were straight and direct when you ask a friend or two out to have fun. Just treat the girl as a friend and talk normally. Once you get used to this, words pop out easily.
 

#5 Best time to ask: Tuesday - Thursday

You probably plan a date out on a friday, or weekends. The best time to ask her is in between Monday to Wednesday. This gives you a better chance of asking her out, or at least ask her if she has any plans for the weekend. If you were slightly later, eg. Friday, you’ll probably get an answer like,”So-so have already dated me out.” or “I am going to this party with so-so gang.”
 

These are always my general guidelines, but I may be wrong. I don’t often get alot of success, but hope this can help you.