Tips to get closer to a girl (or guy)

Posted on Saturday, June 12, 2010 at 12:04 am


This is a page full of tips for guys to better get to know a girl. I listed this in a way so that it is easier and clearer to ask. This is a very “systemetic” approach to getting to know someone, though it sounds very mechanical.

This is a list of questions which I have came out with, after messing around…

I hope you may used it for dating someone,socializing, or for whatever work or friendship purpose. The most important thing is to get both parties to talk and communicate. It is not even referring to the level of understanding each other yet.

Prepare to answer question about yourself as a reply!

Career:
1. Where do you work
2. How is your boss
3. What time do you go to work
4. What time do you knock off
5. How do you get to work ?
6. Are your colleagues fun loving, older gen, or a mixture, messy, politics place ?
7. Is your company good at all ?

Education:
1. Where did you complete your degree / etc..
2. What CCA u took >?
3. Was your course difficult?
4. R u the hardworking type or lazy type?
5. Were there alot of guys or gals in your course?

Family:

1. Do you have siblings ?
2. Are you close with your parents ?
3. Are your parents working ?
4. What does your parents work as ?
5. Are they overly-protective or do they give you freedom?

Personal and hobbies:
1. Which area do you live
2. How tall are you
3. What do you do on weekends
4. Do you like sports ? What do you do to maintain healthy
5. What are your hobbies ?
6. Do you like (insert your own hobby)?
7. Did you recently went for holidays ?

Food:
1. Do you prefer japanese food or western ? (2 most common)
2. Do you like spicy food
3. Where do you have lunch
4. Who do you have lunch with
5. What about dinner ?
6. Do your parents cook buy ultram online ?
7. So do you prefer healthy eating do are you a huge fan of food?

Fight or Flight (continue or quit!).

Warning: This is as good as showing hand all your cards. Used with care, its double or nothing! Use if known for >3 months (general guide). A good chance to learn if he or she is already attached…

1. Are you attached ?

If attached:
2. How long have you been together ?
3. How do you get to know your bf ?
4. Do you all plan to get married (if many years)
5. Whats the most romantic thing your did with your bf ?

If not attached:
1. What kind of guys do you like ?
2. Why aren’t you attached yet ?
3. Are you LES LOL ?
4. Can I date you for a meal ?

This idea is taken from OWASP, a pentest methodoloy checklist framework for pentesting webapp vulnerabilities. :)

Find out if she’s attached #2

Posted on Thursday, September 25, 2008 at 10:52 pm


This is another One Million Question you can ask someone whom you’ve met in a party. This question will not be too direct and “obvious” to find out if shes attached.
 
 

The question is… “How do you travel home from work / workplace?”

or

“Where do you go after work, home?”

 
 
Surprisingly, it may sound of a care and concern type of question, or like as though you are asking her a date after work. But curiously, show that you’ve never been to that area at her workplace, “I am not familiar with your office, wheres that exactly?”, follow by asking the question, “How do you go home from there?”

I was at a social gathering when someone actually asked me this question, but I could tell she wasn’t interested in me anyway, just curious to know more about where I work. But I think its quite useful, because with this question, it leads to her answer such as:

“I will travel to A by bus, then to B by MRT, and then walk home”

or

“I will go to this place where I have my xx activity, then I will accompany YY person for dinner.”

Ahh! There you have it, here is how you got your answers to whatever you intention cialis buy (if it’s to find our if shes’s attached!” Even if she is, a conversation is still opened up, and you could really out more (about the workplace) or some other stuff.

It really depends on how you ask, because if her reply was “I would be usually free after work and then I…” This is what to your imagination and your on-the-spot decision!

 
 

Find out if she’s attached #1

Posted on Thursday, September 18, 2008 at 4:47 pm


I’ve gotten this tip after meeting a few new friends, so I was it was a coincidence as I really wanted to know something else, but thought that this was helpful.

Maybe you’ve ask yourself what’s that “easy-to-find-out” question to ask if someone is attached, or the first words to ask when you meet a girl you like, or interested in. Why not Buy Cleocin gel Online without prescription put it this way, ask another question which may lead you to an answer.
 
 

Ask her this One Million Question. “Who do you live with?”

 
 
A standard reply will tell you she’s living with her parents, or her husband, or if she’s staying at her boyfriend’s place.

If she lives with her parents, chances are, you have to probe further. Here you can ask her if she intending to move out? When is she moving out? Plans to buy her home (with someone else)

There’s nothing more you could do if she says living with her husband, but you may just continue your conversation asking her how long she’s been married, where she live, how’s the place and environment etc.

If she’s staying at boyfriend place… that’s one of the turn-off answers to receive.

Hope you have your success into getting the answer you wanted, without getting to direct!

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